The way in which we raise children will
determine whether or not our civilization
will survive in the long run. Altruism is
the key. Altruism is a developmental process
that is dependent on environmental child
rearing conditions during our formative
years.
The development of altruism allows us to
become persons who are sincerely concerned
about others, as well as the world in which
we live. Unfortunately, given the continued
propensity for authoritarian child rearing
practices in our culture, many children are
deprived of the opportunity to develop
altruistic tendencies as a developmental
stage of emotional growth.
The guilt for this failure of the
development of altruistic behavior coming to
pass lies in the prevalence of authoritarian
parenting practices within our culture.
Again, our natural propensity to develop
altruism is too commonly thwarted by the
oppressive, authoritarian way in which so
many children are raised.
We stunt the emotional growth of children by
striking them; diminishing them, and making
them feel that they have a lesser value in
this world than us adults. As a result, we
produce adults who are only capable of a
concern for their own personal needs and
wants...adults who are deficient in empathic
behavior. These are adults who lack the
ability to look beyond their own
short-sighted personal concerns; who fail to
consider the needs and wants of those around
them; and who lack a concern toward the
future well-being of the environment in
which we live.